why..why do you always leave me feeling like this after meeting you... 明明就知道你与我的“男朋友的标准”很不一样，明明就知道我们不可能， 明明就知道我们不配。但，为什么就会有这样的感受。Yes, you're nice, you're a gentleman, you have a kind heart, the qualities that I'm looking for. but we don't have a common topic, and we are different in terms of the way we think (which is VERY important in a couple) but why.... why then do I feel like this? I mean i don't feel very excited or nervous to meet you 也没有那所谓的“怦然” but I didn't want that meeting to end, I didn't wanted anyone to interrupt our discussion.  I felt really lost as to what i feeling on the way home. and i didn't know what to do. 没谈过恋爱的人，果然容易迷失。

How do couples end up being together? how did they decide that he/she is the right one for you? do people end up being together because they really like each other or just because it was for the sake of getting together? 真心希望能遇到对的人。一个不会伤害我的人。