you need a little bit of trust and understanding. she's seen him through that year. and he's seen you through that year. one doesn't simply give up that relationship, that connection as easily as you think it would. put yourself in others' shoes and maybe you'll be a little less narrow-minded, a little happier, a little less sensitive than you are now. thoughts can be toxic. but with the right mind-set, they can be positive. learn to trust. learn to understand. that's the hard part. but you'll be rewarded with something real beautiful at the end of the day. it doesn't feel good being a 'back-up' plan and relying simply on 'luck' and 'fate' sounds like a fragile concept and less strong than something 'planned'. but look on the bright side of things. 'luck' and 'fate' were in your favour. and this time round, it was again. if things were meant to be, it'll be. 是你的就是你的，不是你的你在努力也不会是你的。